Lepa reč, a ne zlobni komentar / A Pretty Word, not a Malicious Comment

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Poznata je ona čuvena rečenica koja kaže da ono čega nema na internetu kao da i ne postoji. U našoj zemlji, veliki broj stanovnika ima pristup internetu, kako u prestonici tako i u drugim srpskim gradovima, varošima i selima. Danas svako drugo dete ima profil na društvenim mrežama, pre svega na fejsbuku i instagramu.

Kako obično biva, svako dobro prati u stopu i nešto loše. Internet je danas svima dostupan, na ulici, u školi, u kafiću, u gradskom prevozu… Negativna strana ovog nezamenljivog izuma današnjeg vremena jesu sve veći izlivi mržnje među ljudima. Osećanje mržnje ne bi trebalo ni prema kome da gajimo. To što će neko nekog mrzeti, čini loše samo sebi, uništava samo sebe, a ne tu osobu prema kojoj oseća mržnju i zavist. Uvredljivi i nepristojni komentari na društvenim mrežama pokazuju samo koliko je broj ljudi koji je zapravo nezadovoljan sobom i sopstvenim životom. U ovom vremenu, sve veći broj tinejdžera ima iskrivljenu sliku o sebi, sve više njih se otuđuje, a tome u mnogome doprinose uvredljivi i puni zlobe komentari vršnjaka. Najpogodnije mesto za to jeste svakako internet, jesu društvene mreže. Dosta adolescenata koji koriste fejsbuk, među prijateljima imaju one koje uopšte ne poznaju u stvarnom životu. 

Trudimo se da gajimo prava prijateljstva i da kraj sebe imamo prave prijatelje na koje možemo uvek da se oslonimo! Život je mnogo lepši i bolji kada neke osobe, koje skrnave naš duh, trajno izbrišemo sa liste svojih prijatelja i zaboravimo na njih. Najčešće uvrede obavijene mržnjom proizilaze iz međusobnih neslaganja po pitanju raznim tema, bilo da je reč o sportu, politici, ličnim stavovima… Svi treba da shvatimo da je sasvim u redu ne biti uvek u pravu, da je sasvim u redu da drugi ljudi imaju mišljenje različito od našeg i da je sasvim u redu da drugi imaju drugačiji pogled na svet u odnosu na nas. Učimo od drugih, ukažimo na greške onima koji su pogrešili. Sve se može reći lepim rečima i bez jedne jedine uvrede. U vezi sa tim, setimo se naše stare srpske poslovice koja kaže Lepa reč i gvozdena vrata otvara.

xoxo Andri

We also know this famous sentence If it isn't on the Internet, it doesn't even exist. In our country, a large number of residents have access to the Internet, both in the capital and in other Serbian towns and villages. Today every child has an account on social network, primarily on Facebook and Instagram.

Internet is available everywhere, on the street, in school, in the cafeteria, in the public transport... The downside of this essential inventions today are more and more expressions of hatred among the people. Hatred should not be about anyone grow. What will someone hate someone, it seems wrong to itself, destroys itself, and not the person to feel hatred and envy. Abusive and rude comments on social network are showing just how much the number of people who actually unhappy with themselves and theirs own life. At this time, a growing number of teenagers have a distorted image of himself, more and more of them are coming apart, and it greatly contributing to the offensive and full of spite comments peers. The most suitable place for this is definitely it, are social networks. A lot of adolescents who use Facebook, among the friends have the ones that do not know each other in real life.

We're trying to grow real friendship and to have real friends that we can always rely. Life is much more beautiful and better when some people who desecrate our spirit, permanently delete from the list of our friends and forget about them. Most common offense wrapped hatred arising out of differences regarding the various topics, whether it is about sports, politics, personal attitudes... All need to understand that there's nothing wrong with not being right all the time, it is quite right that other people have a different opinion from ours, and that's quite all right to let others have a different view of the world. We learn from each other, point to the mistakes of those who have made a mistake. All we can say nice words without so much as a single offense. Let us remember the old Serbian proverbs that says Kind words will unlock an iron door.

xoxo Andri