Pogled iz druge perspektive / A View from Another Perspective

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Vaše su pretpostavke prozori kroz koje gledate na svet. Operite ih nekad, inače svetlo nikad neće ući.

U poslednje vreme sam zaokupljena mišlju o tome koliko su ljudi uskih vidika i koliko su puni predrasuda prema ljudima koje ne poznaju. Ubeđeni su da je onaj način na koji oni vide stvari jedini ispravan, dok drugačije stavove ne prihvataju. Na pitanje zašto baš tako misle, neće vam dati značajniji argument. Ne dozvoljavaju sebi da nekog bolje upoznaju, pa da potom izvedu zaključak, već ga u startu otpisuju.

Mogu sa sigurnošću reći da manja sredina može da utiče na mišljena koja formiramo o raznim stvarima. Sa druge strane život u velikom gradu može uticati na stvaranje drugačijih gledišta. Opažanje svega sa samo jednog aspekta čini da generalizujemo stvari koje uopšte tako ne izgledaju. Najopštiji primer bi bio taj kako mnogi od nas doživljavaju turiste koji posećuju našu zemlju. Ako nekom spomenemo da nam se obratio stranac na ulici da pita za pomoć, možemo očekivati opasku poput one da nam se dotični nije za džaba obratio, sigurno nam želi nešto loše. Malo ljudi gleda pozitivno na svet oko sebe, većinom ćemo sresti one koji u svemu vide nešto tamno i negativno.
Učimo se da budemo otvoreniji prema drugim ljudima, druge narode gledajmo istim očima kojima gledamo naše građane, a ne kao neke vanzemaljce. Neosporno je da bilo gde možemo naići na one manje dobre, ali verujem da ovi bolji preovlađuju. 

Sagledajmo sve iz više uglova, ne sudimo ljudima na prvu loptu. Bogatimo svoj duh novim iskustvima, učimo od drugih, ali i od samih sebe. Stvaranje novih poznanstava je neprocenjiva stvar. Svaki trenutak je jedinstven sam po sebi, da li ćemo biti spremni da mu krenemo u susret, zavisi od nas samih. Moj lični savet, ne prolazite mimo njega ne opažajući ga! 
Videćete da ste doneli ispravnu odluku!

xoxo Andri

Your assumptions are the windows through which you see the world. Wash them sometimes, otherwise the light will never go in.

Lately I've been busy with the thought of how many people have narrow horizons and how much they are prejudiced against people they don't know. They are convinced that the way they see things is the only one correct, while different viewpoints don't accept. On the question of why exactly the way they think, they won't give you a meaningful argument. They don't allow themselves to introduce someone better.

I can safely say that the smaller environment can affect that conceived that we form about a lot of things. On the other side of life in the big city can affect the creation of a different point of view. Observation of all with just one aspect seems to generalize things that don't look like that at all. The most common example would be, how many of us perceive the tourists who visit our country. If we mention to someone that stranger came to us on the street to ask for help, we can expect a remark like that he thinks something bad to us. Few people look positively on the world around you, the majority of them will meet those who in all see something dark and negative. 
We should learn to be more open towards other people, we should see them other with the same eyes with which we see our, and not as some aliens. It is undeniable that there are and these ones who are bad, but I believe that these better prevail.

Let's look at everything from multiple angles, not to judge people in the first place. Enhances your spirit of new experiences, learn from others, but also from ourselves. Making new friends is a priceless thing. Every moment is unique, whether we will be ready to go right to it, depends on us. My personal advice, don't pass by him without looking at him!  
You will see that you made the right decision!

xoxo Andri