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Znam da je prošlo dosta vremena od objavljivanja poslednjeg posta, imala sam jako puno obaveza tokom leta i nisam stizala da pišem za blog. Evo, sada ću se potruditi da ubuduće češće objavljujem postove.

Nedavno sam odgledala jedan sjajan film Šta smo Bogu zgrešili koji bih želela i vama da preporučim! Naime, reč je o komediji čija su glavna tema mešoviti brakovi i kako se roditelji nose sa odlukom njihovih ćerki da stupe u brak sa muškarcima druge rase i religije.

Ova tema mi je u poslednje vreme postala jako interesantna, jer  su ovacije ljudi različite, jedni podržavaju, dok se drugi žestoko protive, obično stariji. Mahom preovlađuje drugi slučaj. Ljudi nisu otvoreni za promene i prilagođavanje, pa stoga im ovakve odluke pojedinih osoba deluju jako čudne, katkad potpuno neprihvatljive. Takav je slučaj sa ovom francuskom katoličkom porodicom koja ima četiri ćerke, i kao većina roditelja i ovi su želeli da im se ćerke udaju za prave bogate Francuze, podrazumeva se da to budu katolici. Ali život piše drugačije priče, tri ćerke su se udale za tri muškarca različitih religija i roditelji potpuno razočarani polažu nadu još u četvrtu ćerku i njen izbor. Ona pronalazi katolika i to im saopštava, ali izostavlja jednu bitnu stavku...i tako kreće radnja filma.

Ovde nam je na jedan komičan način predstavljen jedan veliki problem sa kojim se mnoge osobe u mešovitim brakovima često na početku veze ili braka susreću. Roditelji ne shvataju da život njihove dece neće uvek funkcionisati onako kako su ga oni zamislili. Kada je posredi ovaj problem deca treba da saslušaju mišljenje roditelja, ali i da sagledaju sve aspekte i samostalno donesu neke odluke bez bilo čijeg uticaja. Bitno je da osoba sa kojom ćemo sutra biti u braku prvenstveno odgovara nama, ne znači ništa ako taj neko odgovara našim roditeljima i njihovoj zamisli, a mi se sami pored tog nekog ne pronalazimo. Tako da ni boja kože, pa i religija ne treba da budu prepreka, ako je taj neko istinski vredan nas!

Topla preporuka!

xoxo Andri 

Hello everyone, here I'm again!
I know it's been a long time since I wrote the last post, I was very busy during the summer and I hadn't the time to write for the blog. Here, now I'm going to try to make sure that in the future I will publish more the posts.
Recently, I watched a great film Serial (bad) weddings that I would like to recommend you. In fact, it is a comedy whose main theme is interracial marriages and how parents deal with their daughter's decision to enter into marriage with men other races and religions.

This topic lately has become very interesting to me, because they are a standing ovation people of different, each support, while others vehemently oppose, usually older. Mainly the second case prevails. People are not open to change and adjustment, and therefore these decisions of other people seem weird to them, sometimes completely unacceptable. Such is the case with this French Catholic family that has four daughters, and as most of the parents and those also wanted to have their daughters get married for real rich French guys, of course to be Catholics. But life is writing different stories, three daughters are married to three men of different religions and parents completely disappointed lay hope still in the fourth daughter and her choice. She finds the Catholics, and tells it to them, but omits one important thing...and so moving the plot of the film.

Here we have a big problem about interracial marriages in which a lot of people find themselves in the beginning of a relationship or during the marriage. Parents don't realize that the life of their children will not always work out the way they intended. When is a word abut this problem, the children need to hear the opinion of the parents, but also to assess all aspects of themselves alone need to bring some decisions without anyone else's influence. It is important that the person with whom we will be married tomorrow primarily corresponds to us, means nothing if that corresponds to our parents and their ideas, and we are not satisfied with that person. So, the color of the skin or religion should not be an obstacle, if that someone is truly worth!

A warm recommendation!

xoxo Andri